Sibling Rivalry
As you know, I blog and forum crawl a lot to kill spare time. Today, I read something interesting on Mic’s blog. Head on over to Truly Mic to check out her blog. Her topic about bonding with her elder brother kinda hit a note on my personal life.
Let’s just say, I was never the good and caring brother to my younger sister. My mom worried at times that we would end up killing one another before our teens (tee hee hee). In fact, I used to be such a pest and attention whore. I’d pick on her and generally make life miserable for her. It was worse since I had terrible mood swings and had to babysit her sometimes as my mom trusted US together and not any of us alone. I had to be her bodyguard whenever she had outings with friends. I guess she then noticed that I was there for her and things changed a little. Our relationship as siblings improved over time and I think it’s natural. People do mature to some extent. We still have our differences and squabbles, but it’s usually more out of boredom than spite.
We now communicate more and sometimes after a long day at work, she comes into my room and chat. It’s a nice feeling compared to our bitter bickering in the past, which sometimes escalated to physical levels. I am still the cheeky-as-hell brother and sometimes irritates her to no end, but we both laugh in the end. I’m a clown I suppose.
I truly wonder how many people share a similar level of relationship with their siblings? What about those single child, who never had a chance to share this feeling? I personally feel that they may have lost out on a wonderful thing.
To my beloved sis, if you’re reading this…then:
1) You must have been really bored
2) AuditionSEA must be under patching
3) MapleStory account got hacked
4) GunBound kicked you out of the game for being a n00b
5) Remembered my *cough*kickass*cough* blog
Love ya!
aww u made me all teary. *gasps*
love u lots too bro ^.^
*continues to pretend to be working behind the com*
wops i forgot to say…HAPPY NAW-RUZ, NAWOOOZ!!~~
wops i forgot to say…HAPPY NAW-RUZ, NAWOOOZ!!~~
Woits, I know you gam-dung and all, but dun have to spam my comments, K. Lols. We’ve had our differences, but I’m glad to have a sis to bully…I mean share time with.
Now quit hogging the com at home and be a little angel.
Awww….so diabetically sweet.
Oh, I just found out tat you’re currently using this blog.
Well thanks for promoting my blog in the post…hehe…
Indeed, family bond is the most sentimental part, at least for me..lolx
well, thanks for the adding into blogroll. hmm…can I know you better as in blogger? you don’t sound someone at my age…hehe…if u dun mind introducing yourself…
Sure, Mic. What do you need to know? I think the essential ground rule would be…no, I’m not a stalker or an Ah Long.
I just am a normal guy, who enjoys reading blogs. Admittedly, some people find it freaky that I’ve been reading their entire blog from A-Z, but that’s the whole idea of blogging right.
It’s the same reason why I chose to return to my roots (my old blog). There’s just so many memories here that I can’t leave behind.
It’s like your first love. You maybe with a new partner now, but you usually don’t forget your first relationship be it good or a nightmare.
I think you’ll get a better idea of me in my blog(s). Having said that, if you don’t feel intimidated, then add me in MSN. I think you have it in your blog along with my comments.
i can totally relate to this. in fact, i could have have also blogged about this if it wasnt lent season. but i only have a coupla days to go so, there is hope la.
in any case, sis n i are cat n dog, chicken n duck, elephant n rat but still i only have her and she only has me. so we are stuck for life and i guess that realisation is what makes us bearable to each other. 
plus, i think we’re maturing lar….so same like u lor.
Hehe…sounds like a lot of people experience the same thing with siblings. I’ll and and tell my mom now that it’s normal then.
i love your blog, will keep looking you blog every day.