nice guys finish last…or never at all
today, i shall embrace the truth of these words. i know Shan is going through what I am experiencing right now. we just can’t win…period. when we act nice, we end up as doormats. when we act bad-ass, we get labeled pricks. what gives?
i try to forget about all the bad experiences in the past, but come to realize that i have been patient for far too long. people take you for granted and sometimes don’t even acknowledge we are living, breathing and interacting beings on Earth. wow, some reality check this is. this is the last straw that broke the camels back. i am sooo freakin’ sick and tired. I AM NOT YOUR NICE GUY, TO BE MADE A DOORMAT! get that into your head. yeah, i know i am going to catch flak for this, but i have this urge to rip someone’s head off and figured a little lunacy in my blog would help me release some pent up frustration, anger and disappointment at some people. time for anger management classes.
note to all you mr. nice people out there, it’s time we stood up and quit letting sick shyt slide. we only encourage them to abuse us. hear me out, try changing it bit by bit. let’s show them that nice, does not equal doormat. thanks for listening.
Dude… i sooo hear u man.
You must be going thru deep shit but I guess WE just hv to pick ourselves up. We cant let them step on ourselves when they feel like it. I felt like i was on a leash cos she pulled me back to her everytime she felt like it. Now, i resist a lil. Well come girls are just fucking mean. They complain about guys but they are the more "savage" one’s. Fuck. Being nice doesn’t guarantee success. Being nice makes u a victim. Being nice makes u feel like a fool at the end. Being nice makes u be taken for granted. Being nice makes u NOT in control. Fuck this shit. And Nawooz… hope ur doing fine man. DO take care of urself. Feel the urge to hit out? Blog it out…
EXACTLY~
shan has learnt well, after all that tail whipping i gave him. heh.
Yvy and Shan, take your *ehem* stuff out of here, okay
just kidding. can i watch the whippings?
shan, i blogged about this before. somehow i can’t stop trying to be nice, but at the same time i feel like the world’s greatest idiot. thanks to people like you all, i have Faith in humanity…tee hee hee. as to your ’savage’ comment, yeah, rip your heart out, bleed it dry and then they feed it to the bears. ouch. not all girls and guys are like these, but some can be absolutely evil and vile!
the whippings? but but… that may turn u on? and oh my!! do u like seeing a guy gettin whipped?
i know what u mean by "cant stop trying being nice". i act that way too. even now when i see QM i sumtimes treat her like my princess but then luckily i have my frens who have seen the shit i’ve been in and tell me to step out of it …or risk gettin hurt AGAIN.
well u were there with Yvy when i was out cold. frens dun forget that. it still hurts for me to see her but i will get thru it. my frens help me and i guess im doing great. hey.. nawooz… wanna hit the clubbing circuit one nite?
meh, i am not interested in you getting whipped. i’m more interested in the whipper than the whippee
kidding.
clubbing, hmm…that is one thing i never really caught on. i guess it’s coz i don’t smoke nor drink. but i do enjoy good music. so if you don’t mind a "kayu" dude standing around checking out the chicks, why not.
LOL…. trying ti hint sumthing to Yvy eh? naughty Nawooz!!!
i’ve not clubbed for ages too but jus thought of it. Me been put of drinking for some reasons and my clique oso has been having problems. conflicts suck. well why kayu? i wud imagine u to be a hustler… draggin in the chicks…
conflicts…happens all the time lar. sometimes worse than usual. it’ll blow over soon. also, i didn’t hint anything, which Yvy would not have misunderstood right…right?! hahaha.
and i’m no hustler or playa. i come in peace.
i think i’m getting old and not so wild after having a relationship before. i do miss someone to talk to though and that’s where my "chipsmore" friends sometimes manage to help out. just like yesterday evening. a quick shoutout to my fellow buddy, shum. thanks for your time dude.
woi…how come i was left out of this whole whipping scene are???
hhmmm….if you want it *looks around for HUGE sampan paddle, takes a DEEP breath* then come get it. *taps hand with paddle…with some difficulty*
shan, my friend, you’re on your own…i’m outta here. here is the number of a good tukang urut…he maybe able to bring back some sensation to your numb and throbbing butt
yehawww!!
hahahaha!!!
ps. nawooz, u certainly know when to run n hide. but a very bad friend for deserting shan. tsk…tsk….tsk. lol!! but i must say that it IS a good move. i AM a BIG gurl after all. heh.
wahhhh…. leave me all alone with the sampan paddle in Yvy’s hand ar? OMG!!!
poor ass…
eh yvy… massage sikit k?
shan, for a moment i was wondering why you’re putting your head into the lion’s mouth. dah lar kena whack by sampan paddle from her, now you are asking her to massage sikit with the paddle lagi. goners lar you!
nawooz, ou mean LIONESS mouth, is it?
shan…*calling out while smiling in a singsong manner* come, come i MASSAGE for you…..special one.
*looks around for the blardy huge baseball bat i saw last week, where the hell is it???*
oh please say it’s the huge aluminium one, i saw as well. please please. pretty please with sugar on top. hmm…if i remember correctly, that bat also have spikes on it. BRUTAL!!!!!
eh…nawooz, how u know it’s that one arr? you use it oredi arr?
u got wash or not? lol
alamak! plan backfired. woit Yvy, i was just trying to give you more suggestions lar. why all of a sudden the attention focused on me instead. and if you really must know, yes it’s been washed and disinfected with Dettol, industrial grade
hahahaha! okla…since it was already disinfected. of course la must fire u a bit. all on shan…kesian only. this whole week has been an arse week for him….right hairy monster? eerrhhmm…..HARRY monster?
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