the staring game
i sometimes play this game when i’m bored. try it the next time you’re on a bus, train or just bumming around sipping your latte.
what you need for this game is a good people-watching place and your God-given pair of eyes. pick someone out in a crowd and stare and the person intently. focus and try your best to get the person to look in your general direction or look at you, silently. no gesturing and no talking. pretend you’ve got Jedi powers.
if the person does not turn to your general direction, single out another subject, then wash, rinse and repeat the above paragraph. the best part is when the person actually catches you staring at them. disclaimer: please don’t look too creepy or come on as a mass murderer, when you do this. don’t say i didn’t warn you.
when they catch you staring at them, a couple of things can happen.
a) basically they get uncomfortable and quickly avert their eyes and pretend they didn’t see you.
b) they may stare back until, either one gives up or till someone initiates the next level of ‘contact’
c) smile and wave AND/OR approach you - this is the next level of contact
d) walkover and give you a slap - usually if the ’starer’ is a guy and the ’staree’ is a lady. especially, if you were drolling while sizing up her cup size and what-not. please don’t do this blatantly, guys. discrete is good.
there are of course, grey areas in between like the boyfriend/husband or girlfriend/wife walking over and giving you a piece of their mind, for messing with their significant other. so try not to let it escalate this far. if you are unsure, then refer to the ‘don’t be creepy advice’.
it’s not exactly a fun game, but it keeps my occupied post your experience here.